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How do I invite men to church without making them think I wanna date them?

Question by plzlvamsg: How do I invite men to church without making them think I wanna date them?
I am a Christian. I like to invite people to my church. Most of the time when I invite a man to church he thinks I am picking up on him. Should I take another approach or just stop inviting men to church altogether?

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Answer by Vincent
Yes.

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Can one be Just a Christian in Christ’s Church without being in a Denomination?

Can one be Just a Christian in Christ’s Church without being in a Denomination?

Many years ago I asked a lady this very question – can one be just a Christian in Christ’s church without being in a denomination?  Her answer was that while that was once possible it is no longer possible today.  I have never understood that kind of thinking.  To her the church that is Christ’s simply cannot exist today alone by itself outside of denominationalism.  That raises all kinds of problems.

If what she said is true then of what value is the Bible in our generation?  In the early years of Christianity the Bible (the gospel message) made Christians and Christians only that were added by God to the church.  “And the Lord added to the church daily those who were being saved.” (Acts 2:47 NKJV)  If the pure gospel message of the New Testament will not do that today then of what value is it?

Does the gospel message now add you both to the church Jesus built and to a denomination simultaneously?  If so when did that begin?  If so where can I read about it?  If so which denomination does it add me to in addition to the Lord’s church?  If so why is it needful now that it do that but was not needful for hundreds of years after the first century had come and gone.  If so when did the gospel lose its power to make me just a Christian, no more, no less?  At what point in time was it that both the gospel and the Lord lost the power to save without the aid of men in building denominations?

When did Jesus and the gospel begin to need help in the saving business?  When did his church alone cease to be the body of the saved?  “He is the Savior of the body.” (Eph. 5:23 NKJV)  The body is his spiritual body, his church, “He is the head of the body, the church.” (Col. 1:18 NKJV)  The Lord adds us to the church when we believe and obey the gospel (Acts 2:47).  Paul says of Christians, “you are the body of Christ, and members individually.” (1 Cor. 12:27 NKJV)

But it is now said that that is not enough – if the lady was correct.  Now to be saved you must also be a member of a denomination (the assumption being that all Christians are).  So, you must be both in the Lord’s church and a denomination to be saved, is that right?  It is if the church Christ built is not sufficient by itself.  But, most denominationalists would say it is not essential to be a member of their denomination to be saved.  Then please tell me of what earthly or heavenly good the denomination serves other than to be a divider of men?

The truth is the church Jesus built does still exist on this earth today without the help of any denomination.  The Bible has not lost its power.  The church of Christ can exist anywhere in the world today when men and women are willing to forget everything they have been taught in denominationalism and just take the Bible alone as their guide.  If the church Jesus built does not exist as an operating entity upon earth today in your locality, wherever that be, as it did in the first century in the Middle East, there is only one reason for it in lands where the Bible is readily available – men love their denominations and would rather have them and their creeds and councils and governing bodies than just the simple New Testament church and its worship regulated by the word of God alone.

Let us be honest.  If we take the New Testament alone as our guide a lot of things will have to be given up.  One does not read in his New Testament of, just as examples, sprinkling of infants, christenings, sprinkling of any one at any age and calling it baptism, baptism for any other purpose than the remission of sins (Acts 2:38), the washing away of sins (Acts 22:16), of entering into Christ (Gal. 3:27, Rom. 6:3, 1 Cor. 12:13), as a part of the new birth (John 3:5).

One reads nothing about dramas, plays, special music, instrumental music, one man rule of a congregation by a single individual designated as a pastor (each N.T. congregation had multiple pastors), oversight of a congregation by a national church organization, church sponsored ball teams, raising funds by business ventures, seminars for everything from weight loss to how to do your taxes, and the list could go on and on and on.

No, if you want the New Testament church that Christ built a lot of things will have to go by the wayside and in its place you will end up with nothing much that is attractive to worldly men.  The worship service will not be like attending a rock concert or an entertainment event.  It will be very simple – singing psalms, hymns, and spiritual songs, prayers, partaking of the Lord’s Supper on the first day of the week, the word of God will be preached, and a collection will be taken on the first day of the week to carry on the work of preaching the gospel and carrying for the needy. 

It is a hard transition from a denomination into the simple New Testament church that is led not by a single man or a national oversight organization but by a few select men who meet the biblical qualifications to be elders as found in 1 Tim. 3 and Titus 1.  These men have no authority to legislate for God.  Their role is simply that of overseers, as administrators, to ensure that the work is done that God has given the church to do.  These men will be chosen by the members of the congregation and will be men of the local community who are fellow Christians.  No one designated a pastor by the denominational world brought in from parts unknown will run the affairs of the congregation nor will a national organization.

The name on the sign out front will not matter as long as it is a scriptural designation.  It could simply be called the church (for that is what it is), or the church of God, or the church of Christ, or any other scriptural designation.  The name is more descriptive than it is an actual name.

You will not be voted into the membership.  You cannot join this group of believers.  Why not?  Because God adds you when you obey the gospel.  As I heard one man say recently, and he had it right but I had never thought about it that way, you cannot join the church because you are adopted into it and God is the one who does the adopting.

Critics say that in the very act of organizing such a group you immediately become just another denomination.  That goes along with the way they think okay for they do not want to leave denominationalism behind and thus insist one has to be a member of a denomination and cannot be just a Christian.  If they admit we can have just the New Testament church on earth today and worship in it they condemn themselves and they are not about to do that so all they can do is shout and shout over and over again “denomination.”

But what they are really saying, if they would think it through, is that God’s word has lost its power to make just a Christian and to keep his church on earth today.  They are saying that the seed, “the seed is the word of God” (Luke 8:11 NKJV), produces a different crop today than what it did back in the first century.  Back then it produced just Christians, now you plant it and you get both a Christian and a denominationalist.  Strange seed this is that has under gone a transformation like no other seed in human history.

They are caught in a bind really.  On the one hand they do not want to say you must be in a denomination to be saved but then on the other hand they want to insist you must because to them it is impossible to reestablish the New Testament church today and just have it alone.  They are wanting it both ways, want to eat the cake and save it all at the same time.  Life doesn’t work that way.  They cannot have it both ways.  But, that is their problem not mine.

I think most people who are serious about their religion see the great contradictions in denominationalism.  However, they either do not know what to do about it or else their love for it is such that they will not give it up.  I readily admit it is hard to start over but that is what must be done if we are going back to the church Jesus built.

There is a group that has been trying to do that for nearly 200 years now – go back to the church Jesus built and that alone and stay out of denominationalism.  Sadly, in recent years some of the brethren have decided they prefer denominationalism and have drifted or are drifting into it.  When you say you do not need Bible authority for what you do you are stepping into denominationalism lock, stock, and barrel.  Denominationalism will always have a greater appeal to man than the Lord’s church for it allows more freedom of expression and gives man more say so in what is done and how it is done.  Man has a desire for that.  It has always been that way long before the church ever came into existence.

The fact that some congregations are not what they ought to be should surprise no one.  Read about the 7 churches of Asia in Rev. 2 and 3.  However, the concept of restoration is a valid one and there are many churches of Christ in the land today still operating on the principal that it is possible to be just a Christian alone outside of denominationalism, just be a member of the church Jesus built.  Take the Bible and do what they did in the first century, that and that alone, and be just a Christian.  Unless God’s word has lost its power it is still possible to do that.

True, many congregations have or are departing from the concept but it is also true that many, many are still holding true to the principal.  I would encourage you to check them out in your locality.  However, it is not a matter of either or.

The church can be established in its New Testament purity in any area where men and women are willing to leave denominationalism and just take the Bible alone.  As I have said, it is not necessary to call it the church of Christ although no man should